of weddings and relationships

lately on my facebook, there are so many posts/statuses/photos/updates about people getting engaged, people getting married, people in love (okay that isn’t new uh) well guess in my age and my circle of friends, it’s definitely getting increasingly common. hitching and hatching seemed to be like passing your A’lvls and going to uni. well, just an analogy. not a good one apparently.

so yes. i do have thoughts about weddings and relationships as well. however, as pin pointed by someone, there is one huge flaw in my thoughts of relationships and weddings. everything is well thought of except, well… the partner. believe me when i said, i’ve thought of the engagement and wedding ring that i’m going to (subtly) hint to my other half. he is gonna be a very lucky man coz i’m not into carats of diamond at all. ain’t that awesome =P

it’s such a bliss to see people who are really in true love just being happy and getting married. people getting engaged. people helping each other on how to propose. people buying HDB flats together. it’s such an awwwww.

which then comes to the flaw about my thoughts of weddings and relationships… the other half.

think since the beginning of the year, before i even turn twenty (something), my cousins/friends have been attempting to matchmake me and let me ‘socialize’ with people of my own religion/race. well, obviously nothing turns out right. hahah but it was all fun =) the worst so far was someone calling me arrogant and i called him boring.  love it when feelings are mutual. but nevertheless, which brings me back to the deeper thought abt partners.

what are the criteria? issit even necessary to have a criteria?

idealistically speaking………….. the man must be

talldarkhandsomerichsmarkhumourouscharismaticresponsible
goodbuilthotbodydrivesgoodcarinterestinglovinglovestravellinglovestosplurgeandyetknowhowtoplanfinanciallyis
averyfamilymanlovesmyparentsandfriendsisn’tselfishbutisn’taspendthrifteitherisnotneedy
metrosexuallovestogroomflawlessenglishlanguageveryhumbleinspiringmotivatingreliableresponsible

the list could go on and on and on. but what’s the point when…

there is just NO LOVE?

despite how some people say im too unrealistic and too picky, i beg to differ. i just didn’t feel it yet. i dont think all my dates/exs have ALL the above mentioned traits. but what’s important is, there’s feelings. (:

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